White Li(n)es

In this existence, we're all inexorably moving towards our graves. However, the choices we make along the way set our pace of when & how we get to the end. Some choose to sprint towards the abyss, embracing recklessness while suffering throughout the journey, while others opt to live in a place of self-preservation & abundance, cherishing each step along the path. These choices define our relationship with life's inevitable pain & challenges.

Life is pain, yet within it lies the potential for alchemical transformation. Our relationship with pain & the choices we make in response to it will determine the quality of our lives. Like raw material waiting to be forged, pain can be transmuted into wisdom, strength, & resilience. It's a reminder that we are the captains of our fate & masters of our destiny. Honor your ability & freedom to choose. Exercise autonomy in shaping the life you want for yourself.

In the vast tapestry of life, joy is an elusive & precious thread that we all seek to weave into our stories.

However, there is a Girl who steals joy & a Boy who dissipates the ability to experience anything positive. They are reminders to us that not all specters that hijack thoughts are aligned with our pursuit for happiness. Their existence raises questions about the nature of joy & its vulnerability to external influences.

The insidiousness of these negative influences is akin to a shroud that veils the true potential of those affected. It's as if a dark cloud hovers over the lives touched by this Girl & Boy, casting long shadows of despair. This shroud is an aggressive reminder of the powerful impact that external sources can have on our own well-being.

This Girl & Boy act as puppeteers of deception, pulling the strings of those in their orbit. Lies, manipulation, & delusion become the strings by which their marionettes dance. Our Earthsuits are vessels of authenticity & depth, but they can effortlessly be transformed into hollow shells, mere reflections of their true selves.

The weight of witnessing those we care about squander their joy, potential, & ambitions for the allure of chemicals is a burden that cuts deep. It's a testament to the interconnectedness of human experiences, where one person's choices can ripple through the lives of others. The shame that deepens with each projection of pain serves as a stark reminder of the power of empathy.

The idea that "__________ is like borrowing happiness from tomorrow" is a profound lesson in delayed gratification. It prompts us to reflect on the choices we make today & their impact on our future selves. The lowering of possibilities for a better tomorrow underscores the importance of mindful decision-making & discipline.

Embrace the idea that your multifaceted self is existing across different timelines. It's a recognition that personal growth is not a linear journey but rather a multidimensional exploration of your potential. Every version of yourself is a part of the symphony of your life. Imagine meeting every single version of yourself & offering them empathy rather than feeling the need to conceal or turn your back on all the parts of your being.

The power of discernment in choosing associations cannot be overstated, much like selecting the pigments for your canvas. Just as each color contributes to the vibrancy of your artwork, the influences in your life add depth, dimension, & meaning to your masterpiece. It serves as a reminder that, amidst life's intricate patterns, you wield the artist's brush, directing the harmonious symphony of your existence towards a crescendo of growth, fulfillment, & happiness.

Choose wisely, for there are many specters that may seek to influence your canvas, but not all are aligned with the pursuit of the beautiful work of art that you embody.

Regardless of whether you've encountered or are familiar with this Girl or Boy, remember that you have the power to redetermine & change the narrative of your story. Your choices & actions can reshape the course of your life, weaving a tapestry that reflects your true essence & the pursuit of genuine happiness.

Otherwise, what're you doing here & what's your point for being alive, having consciousness, or personal agency?

🤍,

Lucy Ford

1/21/2024